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HeBlogsSheBlogs.com 'Grand Opening' Starts May 1

Hbsb_logo_with_swirls_webIf you're interested in learning how to become a better writer, blogger, and marketer, visit my new site, HeBlogsSheBlogs.com

My business partner, Jim Rubart, and I started He Blogs, She Blogs last summer and we've been so busy working with clients (a good thing) that we put off launching our own Website until now. We created an all-in-one blog/Website, with our blog as the Home page. We'll be adding content and downloadable products on a regular basis, so visit us often.

During our Website's "grand opening" in May, we'll be giving away cool prizes to people who sign up for our free monthly "Bright Ideas Blogzine." If you sign up for our Blogzine before May 1, we'll enter your name TWICE in every giveaway during the month of May. The signup form is at the top of the sidebar.

You can also sign up to receive blog updates via e-mail or RSS -- the form is beneath our photos in the sidebar.

Please stop by HeBlogsSheBlogs.com and let us know what you think of the site.

Adoption Talk on KVI 570 AM This Sunday, April 27

Join me on Seattle's KVI 570 AM talk radio this Sunday, April 27, from 1-2 p.m. Pacific time, when we're going to talk "adoption" for a full hour.

Host Delaina Bochsler and I will be giving out free copies of my books, The Adoption Decision and The Adoption Network every 15 minutes, so please call in for a chance to win!

"Life Talk With Delaina" is a listener call-in show, so you can ask a question about adoption while you're at it (Delaina is an adoptive mom, too). Here are the call-in numbers:

206-421-5757 or 1-888-312-5757

You can listen to the show live online.

I've done many remote radio interviews (aka, over the phone), and this is my first in-studio interview. I'm very excited, and I hope you'll join us!

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Adoption Fundraiser: Adoption Auction

Enter to win an autographed copy of The Adoption Decision: 15 Things You Want to Know Before Adopting. Just sign up for my free Adoption World eZine (send a blank email to adoptionworld@aweber.com) and follow the contest entry instructions in April’s issue. The contest runs through April 30, 2008.

Here’s an entry from Beckie Stewart:

Take items from your home and instead of having a yard sale, have an adoption auction.   

You can also ask friends and family to donate things.  Hand out flyers and send out invitations for the event, and if you can, find a place to hold it other than your home.

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'Adoptive Families' Mag Accepts Nominations for 'Favorite Adoption Book'

Adoptive Families magazine is asking readers to nominate their favorite adoption books for their annual "best books" issue. If you're the first person to nominate a book they select to feature, you'll win a special gift from them (they don't say what the gift is).

If you liked my books, I'd appreciate a nomination in the following categories:

1. Most helpful how-to-adopt guides to read as you're deciding on adoption and working through the process:

    The Adoption Decision: 15 Things You Want to Know Before Adopting

2. The special-interest parenting books you think every adoptive parent should read:

    The Adoption Network: Your Guide to Starting a Support System

You can also nominate memoirs, children's books about adoption, and multicultural kids' books.

Submit your nomination by e-mailing letters@adoptivefamilies.com. Just tell them the name of the book, author's name, and why you like the book.

“My Home is Your Home”

Our_creators_hope_logo Today, guest columnist Leigh Stevens joins us. She shares how she is experiencing God's call to adopt internationally. As she and her husband await the right timing, they are providing financial assistance to other families who are adopting.

By Leigh Stevens
Guest Columnist

My family will tell you I was always inviting anyone in need to come live with us. In high school, a foreign exchange student was having problems with her sponsor family. I offered my parents' home to her and she became part of our family for that school year, so I guess the concept of “my home is your home” has always been there.

In January 1999, I went on a medical mission trip to India, 10 months before I met my husband. There, I went to a real orphanage for the first time. I remember thinking, I am going to adopt one day. On that particular visit, a little boy we’d seen in the clinic earlier in the day for a cold was running a high fever. He was curled up in the corner of a bunk bed all alone. I crawled in that bunk bed and picked him up, held him, and kissed him. I cried and cried. This precious child needed a mommy to hold and kiss him through his illness. This simple act that so many take for granted would never been known to this little child.

After my husband and I were married in 2001, we were driving back to Alabama from Massachusetts to start our married life. In the car ride, I was listening to Focus on the Family. They did a segment on adoption with Steven Curtis Chapman. He talked about adopting his daughter from China and all the fears that they had. As I listened, I knew that God was confirming in my heart that a child was waiting for me in another country.

As time passed we settled into our careers (I am a nurse anesthetist and my husband is an accountant) and married life. Little did we realize we would face infertility. After six years of marriage, we were unable to conceive a child. The sadness of infertility hit us—the whys, “this makes no sense,” the bitterness, the anger. The Lord reminded me about that child who goes to sleep every night wanting a mom and dad. That’s when I knew infertility treatment was not an option for us. I asked myself, “How can I pay all this money and waste time on something that may not work, when there are millions of beautiful children waiting for a home? We decided to adopt.

During this process I joined forces with KenyaRelief.org,  an organization that started an orphanage in Kenya. We have expanded into opening a medical clinic for orphanages and the community, offering state-of-the-art medical care and medicine year round.

I joined their adopt-a-child program and my (sponsored) child is Kevin Chacha. I love this program! When I travel to Kenya, I get to stay on the same site as the orphanage so I have developed a relationship with him personally!

During my work with kenyarelief.org, God called me to go back to school to become a doctor so that I can do more for orphans. Currently, I am in my second year of medical school. Due to my medical training, it will be at least another 2-3 years before I can actually proceed with an adoption.

During our research on adoption, we realized a common theme that broke our hearts: financial hurdles that stop or prolong many adoptions. I asked Ray, “How can we bring home one or two children and leave millions behind? We have to do something now—not later—to offer hope for those left behind. That's why we founded Our Creator's Hope.

This Christian not-for profit organization offers grants to families needing financial assistance for domestic and international adoptions. In fact, we’re just awarded our first $1,000 grant, to the Asperger family. This family is adopting two brothers from Ethiopia. Their blog is Faith for the Journey.

I hope this organization will also be used to help churches worldwide develop resources and education tools to start orphan/adoption ministries for pre-adoption, during, and post-adoption families (just like we have woman, men, youth ministries in most churches). Our Creator's Hope would also educate and encourage Churches to develop grants/loans to their membership seeking adoption.

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Adoption Fundraiser: Spa Evening

Enter to win an autographed copy of The Adoption Decision: 15 Things You Want to Know Before Adopting. Just sign up for my free Adoption World eZine (send a blank email to adoptionworld@aweber.com) and follow the contest entry instructions in April’s issue. The contest runs through April 30, 2008.

Here’s an entry from Kris and Jen Howell:

To help raise money for our adoption we put on a “Spa For Sissy” evening for ladies of all ages. This fundraiser works great right before Christmas or before Mother’s Day.

INVITES
A scrapbooking friend made beautiful invites using pink card stock and terry cloth fabric to make a You Deserve a Spa Day invites. She packaged the invites in a clear container with a bottle of FUJI water, pink shower puff and some lotion donated by a Body Shop dealer.

There were spots for 25 women with a suggested donation of $25. The ladies came between 4 and 8 p.m.… mingled, snacked and signed up for the spa services.

SPA
I lined up professionals (each friend donated their services to the cause):

  • Hair cuts, styles
  • Waxing
  • Make-up
  • Pedicures/Manicures
  • Massage

FOOD
Women in our church made finger foods, cakes, and desserts that were served by two of my youth girls and two adopted girls from China.

DECOR
We are adopting a girl from S. Korea, so we set up a table and filled it with little girl dolls, some clothes, books, and a memory book of all our documents and adoption paperwork up to that date. The ladies wrote messages to Sissy in her book. We had a large picture of our family on the table and in the black and white picture was a pink sweater waiting for our little girl. The pic made a great centerpiece.

We had lots of opportunities to share God's heart for the orphan and most importantly saw the love that our community had for our daughter so far away.

We raised more than we hoped for and had a great time waiting for Sissy. We are still waiting (25 months) and plan on doing another “Spa for Sissy” this summer!

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"The Andy Griffith Show": Good, Clean TV-Watching Fun

Andy_griffith_show This morning while I was working out on my treadmill, I watched a couple of episodes of "The Andy Griffith Show," Season 1, on DVD.

For those of you who are too young to have any idea who Andy Griffith (aka Matlock) is, the show aired from 1960-1966 and starred Andy Griffith (duh), Don Knotts, cute little "Ronny" Howard, and Frances Bavier.

I hadn't caught an episode for years (after all, I was a newborn when it first aired), but I found the show truly delightful. Whatever happened to the good, clean physical humor (Don Knotts is the master of that genre), witty dialogue, and--dare I say it--family values this show serves up in abundance?

In the episode I watched this morning, Andy meets an attractive young woman who is the new pharmacist in Mayberry (yay; a "working" woman ahead of her time!). Andy gives her an admiring glance and drawls, "I like your smile. It's...toothy."

I informed my 15-year-old son that he needs to tell his girlfriend her smile is "toothy."

He groaned and replied, "If I tell her that, she'll dump me in a second!"

Test your knowledge of the show!

Take this "Andy Griffith Show" trivia quiz (answers at the end of the post):

  1. In what state is Mayberry located?
  2. What is Andy's last name on the show?
  3. What is Andy's job on the show?
  4. What is Andy's son's first name? (Ronny Howard's character)
  5. How are Andy and Barney Fife (Don Knotts) related?
  6. Is Don Knotts still alive?
  7. In real life, how many children did Andy have?
  8. How many episodes of the show aired?
  9. Was the show in black and white or color?
  10. How old was Ron Howard during season 1 of the show?
  11. What was the name of the show's first spinoff?
  12. What is the name of the theme song for the show? Give yourself 10 extra points if you can whistle the theme song (and you have to whistle it!)

Trivia Quiz Answers

  1. Mayberry is a fictional town in North Carolina
  2. Andy Taylor
  3. He's the sheriff of Mayberry
  4. Opie
  5. Andy and Barney are cousins
  6. Don Knotts died February 24, 2006
  7. Andy Griffith has two children, both adopted!
  8. 249 episodes aired
  9. Both! It was in black and white from 1960-1965 and in color from 1965-1968
  10. Ron was born in 1954, so he was 6 during the show's first season
  11. The first spinoff was "Mayberry R.F.D." (1968)
  12. The theme song is "Fishin' Hole Theme." You can listen to it here: http://www.andygriffithshow.net/theme.php

How'd you do?

'The Memory Keeper's Daughter' - Sat. on Lifetime

As I was looking over the TV listings, I noticed that "The Memory Keeper's Daughter," a made-for-TV adaptation of Kim Edwards' novel by the same name, will be on Lifetime this Saturday at 9 p.m. The movie stars Dermot Mulroney as Dr. David Henry and Gretchen Nol as Norah.

I reviewed The Memory Keeper's Daughter last year on my blog, so I won't reiterate the plot here. While the novel was sometimes poignant, I commented that "the slow-paced narrative, while thought-provoking, regularly rehashes the same material; I felt as if I was watching an endless film loop replay itself in my mind."

That doesn't bode well for a made-for-TV movie; in fact, the movie review I read noted:

"When a book is so powerful and the characters are so vivid, it can be a letdown to see the book become a movie, as is sometimes the case with the Lifetime version of The Memory Keeper's Daughter."

Apparently, the movie has a "ridiculously pat ending" (as does the book, in my opinion). The highlight of the movie, according to the reviewer, was the fact that actors who have Down syndrome play Phoebe, the infant girl who is sent to live in an orphan asylum when her doctor father discovers "she's a Mongoloid."

So, if you're feeling the need to veg in front of the tube Saturday evening and you don't set your expectations too high, you might consider checking out this movie. As for me, I'm gonna pass. But if you watch it, be sure to write in and tell us what you thought of it.

Source for movie review:
Zap2it, by Jacqueline Cutler
Book Review: The Memory Keeper's Daughter

Movie Review: 'Juno'

Juno By Blair Buckler
Guest Columnist

The story of Juno MacGuff (Ellen Page) follows a “confidently frank” 16-year-old girl on an emotional nine-month adventure into adulthood. Juno is a quick-witted and distinctively unique individual who walks to her own tune and lives by her own rules.

Her life takes a major turn when she decides to have intercourse with her unassuming friend Paulie Bleeker (Michael Cera). Soon after, she decides to take three pregnancy tests to confirm her suspicions that she is in fact pregnant with Bleeker’s baby.

Juno initially considers abortion, but after a visit to the abortion center she has a change of heart and decides to make an adoption plan. She and her best friend, Leah (Olivia Thirlby), set out to find the perfect adoptive parents and discover a couple, Mark & Vanessa, who are seeking to adopt a child.

Juno informs her father and stepmother of the news. Although they are initially wary of her pregnancy, they rally the support behind their daughter. Juno and her father go to meet the couple they found in the Pennysaver ad at their upscale suburban house. Juno immediately strikes up a friendship with the potential adoptive father, Mark, an out-of-work composer who, like Juno, loves rock music and horror films.

Vanessa, the potential adoptive mom, on the other hand, is very wary of Juno at first because a previous birthmom “got cold feet.” As her body is physically changing, Juno goes through a mental change as she struggles with her true feelings for Bleeker, who is clearly in love with her.

As Juno approaches her due date, there is an interesting and unexpected plot twist involving the potential adoptive parents. This causes Juno to reflect on her feelings for Bleeker and the decision she is about to make. I don’t want to spoil the ending so you will just have to see the movie to find out what happens.

Overall, I feel like this movie portrays adoption in a very honest and positive light. Some of the storyline is a bit obscure but I understand it helps to movie tell a story and flow better. Juno opts for a “closed” adoption but still meets the adoptive parents. The only real way it is closed is her choosing not to see her baby after the birth.

As most of us know, closed adoptions do not usually occur this way. The only other part I felt was kind of “off” was the relationship she builds with Mark, the potential adoptive father. She pays him frequent visits, which does not seem very realistic to me.

What is genuine is the array of emotions Juno goes through along her pregnancy journey. Being that she is in high school, she continues to attend even though she is stared at and surely talked about by fellow classmates. She also struggles with her relationship with the birthfather who she initially pushes away before she can decide if she is truly in love with him or not. She also experiences very genuine and real grief at the loss and relinquishment of her baby, which I found very relatable.

This was an incredibly well done movie about adoption. I am always wary of the way adoptions are portrayed by the media, but this movie was something I could honestly relate to. It was witty, smart, and has a heartwarming lesson and storyline.

Regardless of your adoption story, I feel it is something that birthparents can relate to on many different levels and in many different ways. Juno is out on DVD April 15 and has won numerous awards including an Academy Award for Best Original Screenplay.

Juno: Rated PG-13
92 minutes

This article was originally published in BirthMom Buds Bulletin, April 2008
Reprinted with permission from the author

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ADOPTIONOMICS, Part 3: Temporary Tightwad Tactics to Offset Adoption Fees

Dollar_sign_2 Did you know that 93 percent of Americans eat pizza at least once a month, and the average person eats 23 pounds of pizza each year?

Did you know that the average Starbucks customer visits their cafés six times per month, and that 57 percent of the U.S. adult population drinks coffee each day?

Most of us don’t think twice about purchasing little “extras” each week—lattes, newspapers, and video rentals.

If you’re willing to temporarily live without some of those luxuries, and funnel the money you would have spent into a special “adoption fund,” you can save half the money you’ll need to adopt a child within one year.

Consider cutting back on the following:

Fast food

Limit fast-food purchases to once a week.
Potential savings: $400/year

Alcoholic beverages

When you eat out, order tap water instead of alcoholic beverages or soda.
Potential savings: $470/year

Movies and videos

Rent movies on DVD as opposed to seeing first-run flicks in the theater. Netflix is a great deal, as is redbox, which rents DVDs for $1/night.
Potential savings: $550/year

Mobile phone minutes

If you don’t use all your allotted minutes each month, consider switching to a plan that offers fewer minutes.
Potential savings: $240/year

Paperback books

Rather than purchasing one new paperback each month, buy used books, or check out books from the public library.
Potential savings: $144/year

Newspapers and magazines

Save 80 percent off the newsstand price by subscribing to the daily newspaper and one or two of your favorite magazines.
Potential savings: $420/year

Cable TV

Order the basic cable package at $15 per month, rather than the $40 per month, expanded package.
Potential savings: $1,300/year

Automatic deposits

Perhaps the most effective way to sock away a substantial sum in a short time frame is to automatically deposit 1 percent of your paycheck into an adoption fund. If your monthly paycheck totals $5,000, immediately begin depositing $50 per month.
Potential savings: $600/year

Letting go of life’s little luxuries may make you cringe. But if you’re committed to providing a permanent home for a child who needs a family, you can make it happen. You’ll be surprised at how quickly the small sacrifices you make will result in thousands of dollars in savings that you can apply toward adopting a child.

The April issue of Adoption World eZine contains 12 more Tightwad Tips. I'll  be giving away a copy of The Adoption Decision: 15 Things You Want to Know Before Adopting, but the giveaway is exclusively for Adoption World subscribers. Start your free subscription by sending a blank email to adoptionworld@aweber.com

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