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Monday, February 05, 2007

Ten Things NOT to Say to a Birth Mother in Open Adoption

I enjoy reading Jenna Hatfield's Birth/First Parent Blog at adoption.com. She is a birth mom involved in an open adoption. As I was browsing her blog recently, I came upon two posts I thought you'd enjoy.

Ten Things Not to Say to a Birth Mother in Open Adoption

Click here for Part 1

Click here for Part 2

For links to my 9-part series on the pros and cons of open adoption, click here.

For more news and information about adoption, visit www.laurachristianson.com, and check out my Exploring Adoption bookstore.

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Laura; Thanks for the links! I also need to remember to throw you on our family blog links when I edit them next.

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