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Madonna Discusses Adoption on ‘Oprah’

David_ritchie Madonna appeared on The Oprah Winfrey Show today to discuss the adoption of 13-month-old David. Following are links to excerpts from the show, as well as tidbits from the latest news about the adoption and the controversy that surrounds it.

For details about the adoption read my previous post: "Madonna and Husband Guy Ritchie Adopt from Malawi."

The Oprah Winfrey Show: “Madonna: The Adoption Controversy”

In the fall of 2006, Madonna traveled to the African nation of Malawi where she is building an orphan care center with her foundation Raising Malawi. Soon after her trip, news broke that she and husband, Guy Ritchie, were adopting a 13-month-old boy named David.

Washington Post: “Madonna Speaks Out on Adoption”

Pop star Madonna spoke publicly about her recent adoption of a Malawian boy today, saying she was worried that the "shocking" controversy it has caused will discourage others from adopting needy children from Africa.

Entertainment Weekly: “Malawi father knew of Madonna adoption plan”

Yohane Banda, father of the 1-year-old boy, told Reuters Television on Saturday that he never intended for his son to be adopted by Madonna. He accused senior officials in government of not telling him the truth about the papers he signed.

But his comments were categorically denied by Penson Kilembe, director of child welfare in the Ministry of Women and Child Development, who told Reuters the ministry explained every detail of the process to Banda and his family.

Fametastic: “Madonna fuels rumours of second adoption after shopping spree”

Is Madonna planning to adopt a second child? She stirred up rumors when she spent $7,200 on baby clothes for both boys and girls.

SAWF News: “Brangelina Masterminded Madonna’s Malawian Kid Adoption”

Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt apparently persuaded Madonna and hubby Guy Ritchie to adopt a child from Africa, rather than one from the US. The Ritchies were on the verge of adopting a US baby just three months back, but abandoned plans after being advised by Jolie to adopt a Third World infant instead.

Related Posts on this blog:

Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt Consider Adopting Child #4  6-20-06

Brad Pitt Hopes to Adopt Angelina Jolie’s Children 12-14-05

Jessica Simpson, Jennifer Lopez, Consider Adoption  4-1-06

Renee Zellweger Wants to Adopt 10-14-05

 Celebrities Adopting  6-10-05

 

 

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Madonna and husband Guy Ritchie adopt from Malawi

Madonna_2 The worldwide press is having a heyday with the Madonna adoption story so I thought I might as well jump into the fray, too.

In case you’ve somehow managed to avoid following the debacle exciting news over the past few weeks, here are the facts of the case, culled from numerous media reports:

Adopting parents:
Pop star Madonna, 48, and her husband, film director Guy Ritchie, 38.

The Madonna family:
Madonna has two birth children, daughter Lourdes, 10, and son Rocco, 6.

Child being adopted:
David Banda, age 13 months.

Country from which David was adopted:
Malawi

Where in the world is Malawi:
The Republic Malawi is in southeastern Africa, surrounded by Zambia, Tanzania, and Mozambique. It is the tenth poorest country in the world, with a mean income per capita of less than $1 a day. More than 1 million orphans live in Malawi, 700,000 of whom became orphans when their parents died of AIDS.

David’s history:
David’s mother, Marita, died of complications during childbirth. David has spent most of his life in the Home of Hope Orphan Care Centre in the town of Mchinji.

David’s father, Yohane Banda (who earns his living spraying potatoes in fields), says he is too poor to raise David on his own and that he wants Madonna and Guy to adopt his son. In news reports, he insists he wasn't sad to see his son leave because he believes David will ultimately benefit from being adopted.

Madonna’s interest in adopting from Malawi:
After learning of the one million plus orphans in Malawi, Madonna and Guy decided to “open up our home and help one child escape an extreme life of hardship, poverty and in many cases, death, as well as expand our family.”

Madonna says that she and Guy began the adoption process many months ago but chose not to go public with the news, as “this is a private family matter.”

Madonna has pledged $3 million through her Raising Malawi charity to help the country’s orphans.

Controversy surrounding the adoption:
Anything Madonna does is guaranteed to be controversial. But in this case, Madonna and Guy stayed in Malawi only eight days before claiming custody of David, who arrived at their London home Tuesday (October 17, 2006).

Human rights groups are challenging the adoption, claiming that Madonna used her fame to disregard the law. In Malawi, parents who wish to adopt are granted temporary custody and must live in Malawi for 18 months while their fitness to parent is monitored.

Activists claim that Malawi law bans intercountry adoption and that the Madonna adoption sets a precedent which could legalize human trafficking. The judge who granted them interim custody says that the issue of residence is not specified in the laws.

A hearing on the case has been postponed until next Friday (October 27, 2006) so Attorney General Jane Ansah has time to consult with the Ministry of Gender, Child Welfare and Community Services (Ministry of Gender…that’s a new one!).

As it now stands, David will live with Madonna and Guy for 18 months and be monitored by Malawi officials before final approval can be given for him to officially join their family.

 

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Famous Adoptive Mom: Karen Kingsbury

Karen_kingsbury_and_family If you'd like to learn more about the life and writing of best-selling Christian author, Karen Kingsbury, check out the link to an article I wrote about her for the Sept/Oct. 2006 issue of Today's Christian magazine.

The article, called "Boomerang Blessings,” discusses the adoption of her three sons from Haiti as well as adoption themes that recur in Karen's books.

For an in-depth, three-part profile of Karen Kingsbury, visit my website, www.laurachristianson.com.
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If You Send an Editor a Query Letter…

If_you_give_a_moose_a_muffin When my kids were little we delighted in reading Laura Numeroff's books, If You Give a Moose a Muffin (If You Give...) and If You Give a Pig a Pancake (If You Give...) (among others).

Imagine my delight when I discovered Heidi Saxton's blog post, "If You Send an Editor a Query Letter..."

An adoptive parent of two former foster children, Heidi is the editor of a magazine for Catholic "Women of Grace" called Canticle.

Writers will get a kick out of Heidi's blog post for August 21, 2006 (my anniversary!): "If You Send an Editor a Query Letter..."

 

 

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A Head-to-Head Comparison of Mt. Hermon and Glorieta Writers' Conferences

Pencil During the past couple of posts on my Christian Adoption blog, I've been discussing why it's important for bloggers, magazine writers, and authors to attend writers' conferences.

Part 1: Why It’s Critical to Attend Writers’ Conferences
Part 2: Pitching Your Project at a Writers’ Conference

Today, I'm going to do a head-to-head comparison of two major Christian writers' conferences I've attended this year:
Mount Hermon Christian Writers’ Conference near Santa Cruz, California

Glorieta Christian Writers’ Conference near Santa Fe, New Mexico

Each has a distinct flavor. Here’s my unscientific, biased rundown of the strengths and weaknesses of each conference:

DATE
Mt. Hermon: March or April (encompasses Palm Sunday weekend)

Glorieta: October

ATTENDANCE
Mt. Hermon: Around 400 people from all over the U.S. and Canada, but primarily from Western states. This conference seems to have more “big name” editors and agents in attendance than Glorieta. A nice balance between men and women attendees (plus a few teenagers; Mt. Hermon offers a Teen Track).

Glorieta: 300 plus, including an extra-large faculty. The faculty members aren’t extra large, there are just a lot of them. Attendees come from all over the U.S. (with a sprinkling from Canada and one from Australia this year). A different crowd than attends Mount Hermon, with the majority from the Southwest, South, and Eastern states. Lots of southern drawls, which sounded delightful to my West Coast ears. This conference had a high proportion of women attendees.

COST
Mt. Hermon: Close to $1,000 for six days (including air fare). But it’s worth every penny.

Glorieta: Hovering below $1,000 for five days (including air fare). Again, it’s worth every penny.

TERRAIN
Mt. Hermon: Gorgeous Redwoods. Hilly. Conference grounds are compact, but you’ll need to be prepared to walk among buildings to attend workshops.

Glorieta: Rocky Mountains; high, high elevation. Drink LOTS of water to avoid altitude sickness. Conference grounds are spread out, with the dining hall at least ¼ mile from the dorms (lots of people drive from place to place). All workshops are in one central building.

WEATHER
Mt. Hermon: Rain, rain, and more rain! Bring your umbrella. The weather can be very nice, but it’s rained almost nonstop during the last two conferences.

Glorieta: Crisp. Cool in the morning, warm and dry in the afternoons. Absolutely gorgeous.

WHAT TO WEAR
Mt. Hermon: Comfortable business casual; walking shoes.

Glorieta: Business casual (a tad dressier than Mount Hermon); walking shoes.

ACCOMMODATIONS
Mt. Hermon: Range from yucky little dorm rooms with a bathroom down the hall to a Holiday Inn-style hotel room. Linens provided, but you only get one change of towels during your stay. No maid service.

Glorieta: Dorm rooms with daily maid service. Clean and comfortable.

FOOD
Mt. Hermon: Excellent. Attendees eat in a large dining hall where they are served family style. Dave Talbot, the emcee, provides entertaining after-meal banter, interviews with writers, and book giveaways. Lots of laughter and camaraderie at meals.

Glorieta: Awful. Cafeteria-style with assorted “mystery meat.” All the food was white: grits, biscuits and gravy, breaded meats, mashed potatoes. Starch overload! Thank goodness for the salsa, the salad bar, and dessert.

MEALTIME NOTE
Mt. Hermon: During breakfast, faculty usually sit together (to give them a break from being accosted by people who wish to pitch projects to them). At lunch and dinner, each faculty member has his/her own table reserved so attendees can schmooze with the industry pro of their choice.

Glorieta: During breakfast, tables were reserved for different genres of writing (women’s fiction; drama; children’s books, etc.). At lunch, editors hosted tables. Prior to dinner each evening, industry pros led roundtable discussions on topics of their choice, and then invited attendees to continue the discussion during dinner.

CRITIQUE SYSTEM
Mt. Hermon: You can send in two copies (of up to 20 pages) of your proposal/manuscript before the conference to be either reviewed by an agent/editor or critiqued by a faculty member. You receive it back early in the conference with comments on it.

Glorieta: Paid critique system ($35 per manuscript) in which you submit your manuscript before the conference. The critique team member who reviews your manuscript schedules a half hour consultation with you during the conference.

EDITOR/AGENT APPOINTMENT SYSTEM
Mt. Hermon: You have to be quite assertive to land an appointment with an editor or agent. First you have to identify said editor. Then you have to track them down and ask them for an appointment. Because faculty receive a big batch of proposals and projects to review/critique before the conference, you may land an appointment only if a particular editor is really, really interested in your project. Because of the lack of an organized appointment system, faculty members are frequently accosted in hallways, bathrooms and everywhere else as writers clamor to get appointments with them. Mount Hermon’s appointment system (or lack thereof) is downright frightening.

Glorieta: Superb. Glorieta is the ultimate networking conference; if you want, you can do nothing but meet with industry pros the entire time. The system for scheduling appointments is painless and you’re liable to land appointments with just about everyone on your list, plus many who aren’t on your list. Lots of appointments translates into more opportunities to get your writing published.

WORKSHOP AND KEYNOTERS
Mt. Hermon: Fantastic! Big-name keynoters; high-quality workshops. All presentations are recorded; attendees can purchase CDs of workshops. Head-to-head, Mount Hermon and Glorieta are comparable in terms of the quantity and quality of workshops.

Glorieta: A huge variety of workshops to appeal to writers from many genres. Keynote speakers were a mixed bag. One would think that a conference sponsored by CLASS Services would feature top-notch keynoters, but in my opinion, a couple of them were in need of additional speaker training. However, we heard from a nice variety of speakers (instead of one keynoter, as at Mount Hermon), so my suffering was limited. All presentations are recorded; attendees can purchase CDs of workshops.

WORSHIP
Mt. Hermon: Very worshipful; one of the highlights of this conference. Folks from all denominations and modes of worship attend writers’ conferences. Mount Hermon has a “family” feeling, nurtured by the post-meal entertainment and the top-notch keynote speakers. A special draw for many is emcee Dave Talbot’s skills as a renowned concert pianist/organist.

Glorieta: A little disjointed. Glorieta doesn’t have the “family” feel of Mount Hermon; attendees are more independent, skipping workshops and large group meetings to meet with editors. The morning and evening worship times lacked the exuberance I felt at Mount Hermon, but they were special nonetheless.

WORTH THE $$
Mt. Hermon: Yes, yes, a thousand times, YES! Mount Hermon is considered the “granddaddy” of Christian writers’ conferences, and many writers, editors, and agents make it their one “must-attend” conference of the year.

Glorieta: Definitely. While this conference lacks the warm, cozy, feel of Mount Hermon, it’s a terrific place to connect with writers from all over the country. Attendees, staff, and faculty were outgoing, friendly, and genuinely caring. For networking, you can’t beat Glorieta.

If you've been to either conference and want to add your two cents worth, please do so in the Comments area below.

A permanent link to this review is available at my Web site, www.laurachristianson.com.

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My First Writers' Conference

Tweaking Titles in Preparation for the Big Pitch

Oh, the Rejection!

The Call

The 65,000-word Marathon

 

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Välkommen, Swedish Adoptive Parents!

Kinalistan It's always fun to check my blog stats and find out where readers are coming from. This week I've had lots of visits from the members of the Yahoo! Group, KinaListan.

KinaListan has over 1,000 members and is an online discussion group for Swedish families who are adopting from China. Välkommen!

(And no, I don't speak Swedish, although I wish I did. When I visited Sweden a few years ago, I loved the sound of the language. And since both Swedish and English are Germanic languages, it is fairly easy to figure out at least a few of the words).

Need to translate text from a Website written in another language? Try Systran.

 

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Glorieta Writers' Conference Update #1

Harvest_house_authors_glorieta_2006_crop Pictured: Harvest House authors attending Glorieta (that's me on the right, standing next to senior editor, Nick Harrison).

Reporting live from the Glorieta Christian Writers Conference, near Santa Fe, New Mexico:

Whenever I attend writers' conferences, I keep my eyes and ears open for adoption-related writers and the latest, greatest info about adoption.

I learned about the National Challenged Homeschoolers Associated Network (NATTHAN). I'll provide more information about this organization a future post, but essentially, the group is a network of homeschooling parents who have children with special needs. My sources tell me that they're very supportive of finding adoptive homes for children with challenges. 

So far, I have run into two adoptive parents who contributed to my upcoming book, What's So Great About Adoption. One was Joyce Wallace, a fellow member of the Northwest Christian Writers Association. We met for the first time last month, and I had no idea she was attending this conference (New Mexico is kind of a long way from Seattle -- not many Washingtonians are here).

When_god_takes_too_long_1 I've also had several opportunities to chat with Joe Bentz, who wrote a fiction book about adoption called Cradle of Dreams. His latest book is called When God Takes Too Long: Learning to Thrive During Life's Delays. Joe is an English professor at Azuza Pacific University in Southern California and a really nice guy.

One thing I love about writers' conferences is that I get to meet lots of editors, agents and writers who I've previously known only through e-mail. I met Dawn Zemke, an editor from Today's Christian, Todays_christian_2 a magazine I write for from time to time (I wrote a profile about best-selling author and adoptive mom, Karen Kingsbury, for their Sept./Oct issue).

I also got caught up with Ed Gilbreath, the editor-in-chief of the same magazine. Ed is a busy man this week -- everyone is pitching story ideas to him but he handles it with good humor and genuine delight.

I also met Dena Dyer, who writes humorous books for moms. She's co-author of the Groovy Chicks Groovy_chicks_2 series. Dena writes a blog for writers and moms called Amazing Grace-Land. You're going to hear more about Dena and about other "mom writers" I met in later posts.

And I finally got to meet Brenda Nixon, author of Parenting Power in the Early Years. Parenting_power_in_the_early_years_2 Brenda and I have been exchanging e-mails for about two years and have long looked forward to meeting. Brenda is a wealth of knowledge about parenting not only infants and toddlers, but all ages of kids.

I talked with Nick Harrison, one of the editors from Harvest House, who informed me that the official publication date for my book is August 1, 2007. I can't wait! Okay, first I have to finish writing the manuscript, but I have only one paragraph left to write. Conclusions drive me nuts.

I've received plenty of inspiration from other adoption groupies here at Glorieta. The first day of the conference, I was on a panel of magazine editors and writers, and I mentioned that I specialize in writing about adoption-related issues. For the remainder of the day, I was continuously approached by people who told me they are an adoptive parent, adopted person, or birth parent. I must have met at least 10 people who have a direct connection to adoption. I was privileged to hear several amazing stories.

As I was walking out of the cafeteria after lunch yesterday, a woman called out my name and announced, "I have to talk with you." So I sat down and she proceeded to tell me that she is the editor of the Chicken Soup for the Soul books. Guess what the next book in the series is? Chicken Soup for the Adoptive Soul.

In a future post, I'm going to share the details of what she told me about the upcoming book, and I'll share guidelines for those of you who want to contribute your own adoption stories for possible inclusion in the book.

Stay tuned for more about the cool stuff I'm learning.

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Series on Russian & Ukraine Adoption

Two_little_girls_2 I've just posted a five-part series on my Christian Adoption blog that introduces issues Theresa Reid discusses in her memoir: Two Little Girls. Theresa adopted her daughters from Russia and Ukraine and her book is a superbly-written, honest look at some of the internal issues parents face when adopting.

Part 1:  Book Review: Two Little Girls: A Memoir of Adoption by Theresa Reid

Part 2: So You Want to Adopt a Healthy Infant

Part 3: Adopting Internationally So You Don’t Have to Face Birth Parents

Part 4: The Myth of ‘Love at First Sight’

Part 5: Motives For Adopting a Second Child

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U.S. Companies that Offer the Best Adoption Assistance

Wm_logo Working Mother magazine published its annual report on the 100 family-friendliest companies in the U.S. (October 2006 issue).

Here’s the breakdown on adoption and infertility benefits:

73 percent of Working Mother’s 100 Best Companies offer paid adoption leave, compared to 16 percent nationally.

91 percent of Working Mother’s 100 Best Companies offer adoption assistance, compared to 22 percent nationally.

72 percent of Working Mother’s 100 Best Companies offer infertility treatment (in vitro) assistance, compared to 28 percent nationally.

Visit Working Mother magazine for an list of 100 Best Companies

For a related article and analysis, see MarketWatch, “Best employers for moms promote leave-taking,” by Kristen Gerencher.

Read a recap Working Mother’s 2005 Best Companies

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A Great Family Devotional to Add to Your Christmas List

10minute_time_outs_for_you_and_your_kids I love to interview people, and that means I go where people are. I’ve conducted interviews in some interesting locales: coffee shops, crowded hallways, commercial kitchens, women’s restrooms, and the sidelines of kiddie soccer games.

This spring, I interviewed author Grace Fox at a boarding gate in San Jose airport. Grace, an experienced journalist herself, knew I could barely hear her over the din of people chatting loudly all around us, so I just handed her my tape recorder and said, “Have at it.”

She told me about her new devotional book, 10-Minute Time Outs for You and Your Kids: Stories, Scriptures and Prayers You Can Share Together, to be released in January 2007. Intended for families with children between the ages of 8 and 15, this is a devotional for parents to read with their children.

The format is slightly different than Grace’s first two books (10-Minute Time Outs for Moms and 10-Minute Time Outs for Busy Women).  Each of the 72 devotions opens with a key Scripture verse called Read the Clue. That’s followed by Discover the Treasure, a brief story that touches on themes such as friendship, keeping promises, and choosing wisely.

Next comes Share the Wealth, a discussion question that encourages discussion among parents and children, and a Scripture-based prayer. Each devotion concludes with Hide a Jewel, a short memory verse that relates to the theme of the day.

Grace says she wrote the devotional because she wants to help kids understand that God’s Word is absolute truth. Recent surveys show that only one in ten church-going youth believe in absolute truth. That statistic astounds and sobers Grace. “God wants us to be different; He wants us to shine as lights in the world. The stories and prayers teach kids how live God’s truth.”

Grace suggests that families try to make a priority of eating the evening meal together and reading the devotional. “As parents make family time a priority, they are setting an example for their children, so they’ll know how to do that with their own kids,” explains Grace.

10-Minute Time Outs for You and Your Kids makes it easy—and—fun to enjoy God’s Word together. “It presents the word of God as a treasure filled with pearls of wisdom and gems of truth to help us live life the way God intends us to live it,” says Grace.

Add it to your Christmas wish list and start next year out on the right foot with your family.

For more about Grace Fox and to subscribe to her free, monthly e-newsletter, visit www.gracefox.com.

Related articles:
Devotions for the Devotionally-Challenged (Review of 10-Minute Time Outs for Moms and 10-Minute Time Outs for Busy Women)

Christmas Gift Ideas for Moms

"No More 'Poor Me': 4 ways to cancel your pity party, by Grace Fox, Today's Christian Woman, Sept/Oct. 2006

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      A blog about motherhood, marriage, work, and life in suburbia by a mom who adopted from Kazakhstan.
    • Paradise Preoccupied
      Written by adoption advocate Sandra Hanks Benoiton, this blog is a cool combo of news tidbits and edgy commentary.
    • RainbowKids Blog Community
      Blogs from families who have adopted or are adopting internationally.
    • Red Lights
      Written by Monica, a single mom from Alberta, Canada who adopted a son with Down syndrome. Gorgeous design; interesting read -- don't miss this blog!
    • Red Thread Dads
      Jack Bailey, a dad-to-be who created his blog for to-be-dads, dads who have already adopted, and even those who are contemplating the idea of Chinese adoption. Not updated often, but then, he's probably busy getting ready to bring his daughter home.
    • Research-China.Org
      To educate adoptive parents about Chinese culture, China adoptions and aspects of a child's early life in China.
    • Ryan J Hale
      Ryan is a foster dad who reflects on his upcoming adoption from China. His entries are from a Christian worldview.
    • Stuart & Liz's Adoption Blog
      The highs and lows of one couple's journey through the UK adoption process.
    • The Adoption Choice
      A forum to help pregnant women and teens considering adoption.
    • The Chambers' Adoption Process
      By Brit and Heath, who are waiting to adopt domestically (U.S.)
    • The Life of a Texas Mom
      Gwen is a Christian adoptive mom of three who regularly shares bits of her adoption story.
    • The Seventh Diamond
      Kimberley Girvin and her husband prepare for the arrival of their family's seventh member, a daughter from China.
    • Third Mom
      A thoughtful, well-written blog by Margie Perscheid, mom of two Korean teens, wife of 30+ years, and Korean adoption activist.
    • This Woman's Work
      Dawn Friedman, an associate editor at epregnancy magazine, writes this blog about writing, mothering, and writing about mothering. Includes reflections on adoption.
    • Ukraine Adoption Journal
      Steven Harper Pizik chronicles his family's journal to adopt two boys from Ukraine.
    • Waiting for Mercy
      By Michelle, a mom of four boys who is waiting to adopt a little girl from Guatemala.
    • Writer's Wanderings
      Freelance writer, Karen Robbins, is also an adoptive mom. Her blog contains "musings along life's journey."